Author: Scarlett De Bease

The Perfect Pant Style For You

Written by Scarlett De Bease on February 26, 2023. Posted in Image and Style, News and Events, Shopping Tips, Uncategorized, What To Wear.

Bet you’ve been wondering…

Should I wear wide-legged pants?

Skinny-legged?

Flare?

Cargo?

Pleated?

Joggers?

What style is in?

The answer is…I have great news for you because the pant style that is perfect for you is…

The one YOU look great in!

It’s now that simple because all of the above pant styles are ‘in.’

The days of only one style being in style are OVER!! And, thank goodness.

When you wear ‘what’s in’ but it doesn’t look good on you… you’ll feel uncomfortable, self-conscious, and annoyed because you’ve wasted money once again.

Which style makes YOU look longer, leaner, and more comfortable?

This takes experimenting if you don’t already know which styles and proportions are perfect for you,

When you do know the perfect pant style for you, it will keep you from wearing a style that can make your tummy and hips look bigger, or your legs appear shorter.

However, you might be many years in asking yourself:

What the heck does looks good on me?
Why do I never love the clothes I buy?
Why can’t I find clothes that fit me?
Why do other women always seem dressed better than me?

Yes, you can wear whatever pant style you want, but you might still be wondering…what is the perfect pant style for me.

You are exactly why I created the Powerful Presence VIP Intensive.

If it’s been years of you never loving what you wear, even with the help of a blog or magazines. That’s why YOU are the perfect person I made the VIP day for.

And the reason you want it is because, in the scope of ONE DAY, we define & discover your personal style, including the perfect pant style for you, and end your getting-dressed stress!

You will dress confidently & be ready to tackle anything on your schedule. Every day!

This VIP Day is for you if you’re ab-so-lute-ly ready to:

Confidently walk out of your closet every day looking stylish & pulled-together
Stop wasting money on clothes that don’t work for you
Feel excited (Yes! It’s possible!) when getting dressed every day
Know how to quickly pull together an outfit – and feel sure it’ll look great on you

Not sure you want a VIP Day but do you want wardrobe styling help? Get on a call with me here.

How To Avoid A Wardrobe Malfunction

Written by Scarlett De Bease on January 31, 2023. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

The best stories come from either my clients or the women who want to work with me.

I’ll share one with you a few sentences from here, but first…

We’ve all had the experience of something in our outfit either busting open or barely
fitting properly, and one way to avoid wearing an outfit that will make you very uncomfortable is to sit it out.

Yup, I mean sit down.

I encourage you to sit down when you put an outfit on or try on a new piece of clothing.

If…

You feel constricted, hear a strain, or a pop, don’t wear it, and definitely don’t buy it.
It is uncomfortable, don’t wear it, and definitely don’t buy it.
You tell yourself you’ll lose weight first, don’t wear it, and definitely don’t buy it.
You can’t sit down without feeling miserable or potentially embarrassed,
don’t wear it, and definitely don’t buy it.

So, here’s the story from a woman I spoke to this week, who wants my help getting her
closet filled with outfits that will fit, and flatter her.

All she simply wants and will get, are clothes that she can’t wait to wear. Sound familiar?

She wants to replace the mistakes hanging in her closet and showed me one of
her expensive examples.

It was a very pretty 3-piece pant set that a salesperson talked her into buying
for her daughter’s wedding a couple of years ago.

The jacket and pants were nice, but the sleeveless tank was much shorter than what I would have picked out for her. It simply wasn’t long enough to fully cover her stomach.

The tailor she took the outfit too, offered a solution. He would add snaps to connect the tank to her pants. 🤔

That looked great when she was standing, but at the wedding and reception, she was seated.

So what do you think happened when she sat?

Yes, you guessed it…SNAP, SNAP, SNAP!

But, if she had done the sit test, or, even better, had known me back a few years, she would never

have been so self-conscious and uncomfortable on such an important day in her and her daughter’s life.

Take a seat when trying on outfits, and you will know how to avoid a wardrobe malfunction that will ruin your day or night.

I’ve never heard of attaching snaps from a top to a pair of pants, and for good reason. It’s a VERY bad idea.

PS. If you find yourself standing in your PJs each morning, staring into your closet hoping that today’s the day you’ll find an outfit that fits you perfectly…stay tuned for a new and quick way to have a closet full of clothes that makes you confidently happy and stylish!

Want to know more? Add your name to the waitlist HERE, and get an Early Bird price only available to the first 3 who sign up.

How To Create New Outfits

Written by Scarlett De Bease on December 5, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Tips On How To Create New Outfits.

I’m baaaack on Better Than Gossip TV on Binge Networks.

In this episode you’ll hear:

How to create new outfits using the clothes you already own.
Why not being able to close your jacket is ok.
Why weight is not the reason you don’t know what to wear.
That I’m not a fan of dummies, AKA store mannequins.
The words all my new clients tell me.
How to get inspired to say these words to yourself.
and sooo much more.

Watch until the end to get the 5-Day Wear What You Have Challenge details, and
you’ll be surprised by the outfits you’ll come up with.

And then she said…

“Thank you Scarlett – so much great advice – my closets are so, so much easier to navigate – You made editing easy and possible – the idea of getting dressed without hassle and wasted time and money is just thrilling – so many better things to do. I am thrilled with “Less is More.”

My Favorite Things 2022

Written by Scarlett De Bease on November 24, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips.

Oprah shouldn’t be the only one who gets to share her faves, so here are My Favorite Things 2022.

Some make great stocking stuffers, others gifts, and all are perfect to give to yourself because you deserve them!

My Favorite Things 2022

Brush Blow Dryer – This blowdryer has changed my life! When my hair is close to dry, I use this dryer for no more than 5 minutes, and I no longer look like I put my finger in a socket.

Eyelash Lift – I get my eyelashes permed so they are not stick-straight and I don’t have to use an eyelash curler.
I go to Julia Brown in Collinsville CT. She’s wonderful and in a very cool location.

Bathing Suit – Miraclesuit bathing suits. Yes, they are pricey but boy do they suck in where we need them to. A coupon for $50 off pops up when you go to their site and they have styles on sale.
Note: Be sure to read my sizing tips here before you choose what size to order any bathing suit.

Moisturizer – I LOVE this . I mean LOVE it, and I’m pretty sure you will too.

No-Show Knee-His – The solution to the should I or shouldn’t I wear . These are a great answer
to the should I or shouldn’t I wear socks with specific shoes.

L’oreal Smoldering Eyeliner – When I need to give my a boost for going online or outside. Great value and long-lasting.

Camera Covers – Protect your privacy with these covers for your computer, iPad, phone, or whatever device you own that has a camera.
Recently I was in my bathrobe right in front of my computer, w/o makeup on, getting ready for the day while attending a Zoom event. I thought my camera was off, but it wasn’t. 😬😬😬😳😳😳
Thank goodness I had the camera cover on my computer in the closed position and all the hundreds of other attendees saw was a black square.

Tiara Shower Caps – This is the 2nd year I’m recommending these great caps.
Stay tuned, because soon she is rolling out a fabulous natural deodorant that actually works!

Happy Holidays and Happy Shopping!!!

How to pick out eyeglass frames

Written by Scarlett De Bease on November 15, 2022. Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Style, Shopping Tips.

Eyeglasses can be costly and knowing how to pick out the right eyeglass frames will save you money and aggravation.

They’re also a great accessory, so choosing the right pair can also make your outfit even better.

Eventually, most of us will need eyeglasses and trying to find a pair that we look good in
and love to wear can be overwhelming.

There are a few things to keep in mind when choosing eyeglass frames. First, consider your face shape. If you have a round face, you’ll want to avoid round frames, which will only accentuate the shape of your face. Instead, go for angular frames, which will help to slim down your appearance. If you have an oval-shaped face, you’re lucky – pretty much any frame style will look good on you!

Second, think about the color of the frames. You’ll want to choose a color that complements your skin tone and hair color.

Here I am, about 8 years ago in the video below, sharing even more tips on how to pick out eyeglass frames that are flattering.

Based on how I was looking at the wrong place on my computer, I could have used a pair myself.

And then she said:

Scarlett has been amazing in upgrading my wardrobe so that it’s now professional, attractive, and ready for anything! When I wore one of the beautiful business suits that she selected, I was able to exert full authority as I advocated for a hospitalized client in an explosive situation. This is just one example of the unexpected effects of dressing for the part. Scarlett, thank you, thank you, thank you! Ruth Levy

Is Your Closet Scary?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 31, 2022. Posted in Organizing Tips.

😱😱😱😱😱😱 Is Your Closet Scary? 😱😱😱😱😱😱

Are you always looking for new ways to organize?

Me too.

Then you’re going to enjoy my guest contributor, Kitti Andrews, a Thought Organizer.

Yes, you read that right, she’s a THOUGHT organizer.

What is keeping you from de-cluttering and letting go of ‘stuff’ in your home and closets,
could be because you have ghosts, and Kitti will explain what that means.

Just watch and you’ll see why you might have them in your midst.

Oh, and be sure to catch Kitty’s tip on the one thing you can do right now, that will make your closet immediately less messy, stressful and overwhelming.

It’s a great tip!

Here’s the link to Kitty’s Free Gift: 7 Easy Steps To Conquer Your Physical & Mental Clutter, plus my guide:
End Your Closet Shame – learn how to let go of the clothes that are doing you wrong.

Are Your Clothes Bringing You Down?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 10, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Are your clothes bringing you down? Have way too many? Nothing you love to wear?

Don’t think there is something wrong with you when it comes to your clothes.

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again…it’s the clothes that need fixing, not you!!

The reason you have lots of clothes in your closet, and “nothing to wear” is that you keep

buying and wearing clothes that are not right for your shape, age, personality, and proportions.

Not because you are not thinner, taller, or younger.

Watch my 2nd episode on Better Than Gossip TV which airs on Binge Networks TV, and

learn how to shop more successfully for clothes, and why shopping alone is a really great idea.

And then, my wonderful virtual styling client said…

Working with Scarlett De Bease hasn’t been “work.” It’s been a joy. Like many women, over time I’ve transitioned through wardrobe and physical changes. Scarlett helped me not only clear the clutter from my closet but also my inner critic. My sense of what colors, shapes, and styles look best on me feels sharper. I have confidence as I shop online or in person for what’s right for me, and what I can leave on the rack. (In the past, many of those items would have come home and remained on a hanger or consigned). Today I browsed in a favorite store and noticed many items aren’t for me, but I also let the manager know what I’m looking for and she’ll set them aside for me. It creates sustainable habits for my wallet and the planet. Win-win. Let Scarlett get into your head and wardrobe and you’ll find yourself winning, too! KATHY KOENIG

Why Your Clothes Don’t Fit.

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 2, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

This tiny detail is one of the many reasons why your clothes don’t fit and why you might not have any idea why something is wrong with your outfit, but you can’t quite put your finger on it.

Take a look at my video on YouTube and see what’s in your closet that fits this common fit problem.

Until you can identify all the different styling details, and there are a lot, you will always wonder why your clothes don’t fit the way you think they should.

Pay attention to details in the clothes you wear and buy, and you’ll end up saving money and walking into a room looking and feeling confident, instead of feeling like you can’t quite get it right.

Here’s how I can show you how to be the best-dressed woman in any room, because YOU deserve to love how you look!

How To Check What Your Photo Is Saying

Written by Scarlett De Bease on September 19, 2022. Posted in Image and Business.

Here’s how to check what your photo is saying, and the message it’s really sending.

Go to Photofeeler.com and upload the photo(s) you use for social media, dating sites, or your website, and for free discover what people will see and feel from looking at your pics.

Here’s what this photo of me is saying:

I did not look up the dating score in case my husband reads my blog. 😂😂😂😂

Go see what your photo is saying to your audience, and see if it is what you intended.

And then she said:

Working with Scarlett De Bease hasn’t been “work.” It’s been a joy. Like many women, over time I’ve transitioned through wardrobe and physical changes. Scarlett helped me not only clear the clutter from my closet but also my inner critic. My sense of what colors, shapes, and styles look best on me feels sharper. I have confidence as I shop online or in person for what’s right for me, and what I can leave on the rack. (In the past, many of those items would have come home and remained on a hanger or consigned). Today I browsed in a favorite store and noticed many items aren’t for me, but I also let the manager know what I’m looking for and she’ll set them aside for me. It creates sustainable habits for my wallet and the planet. Win-win. Let Scarlett get into your head and wardrobe and you’ll find yourself winning, too! Kathy Koenig