Author: Scarlett De Bease

I Need To Give You The Cold Shoulder

Written by Scarlett De Bease on July 19, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Sometimes too much of a good thing, becomes a bad thing.

It also can become boring to see the same thing, over and over again, and that is why I am warning women to not go crazy over the cold shoulder trend in tops and dresses. I mean it is everywhere, and nothing is special if it is all over the place.

Hint. Hint.

A hint that the cold shoulder trend is winding down, is when the sale racks have lots of the cold shoulder clothes on them, and right now they do.

The cold shoulder is flattering to most women, is a bit sexy without going ‘all the way’, and hides the part of the arm most women despise. Like, really, really despise.

Just buy one or two but no more of this trend, so you won’t have wasted your money on the cold shoulder style, that very soon most will give the cold shoulder to.

PS. A dear and very fashionable friend, reminded me that this look was started by Donna Karan a few decades ago. So have no fear, as the cold shoulder trend will be back again. And again, and of course, again.

Above is Hillary Clinton back in 1993 when as The First Lady, she got lots of attention when wearing this cold shoulder dress by Donna Karan.

“Although Scarlett came extremely highly recommended and I knew what to expect when working with her, I was still so very surprised and delighted by how truly wonderful the process really was — and Scarlett is. Clearing out my closet was uplifting – I never realized how little of what was in there that I actually wore, or would even want to wear! Seeing what new outfits could be made from the remaining clothes was very enlightening. But the icing on the cake was the shopping experience! Words can’t really describe how wonderful it was. Truly an experience that every woman should have—and ideally have more than once! And I am so tickled at the compliments I’ve been getting at my new outfits and how amazing they make me look and feel! Without a doubt, I can definitely say I’ve stopped stressing about dressing!!” Kim Barron – New Leaf Graphic Design

I also have no problem washing my clothes in a the bathroom sink.

These Are The Outfits I Created From My Carry-On Bag

Written by Scarlett De Bease on July 5, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, Travel Tips, What To Wear.

My last blog post showed what I packed for my 2 countries in one week trip last month, and now these are the outfits I created from my carry-on bag.

My travel outfit with a different pair of shoes & I’m off to start touring

A successful shopping, touring and dining day.

Please don’t judge me, but I see nothing wrong with wearing the same outfit twice during a vacation. I do change my shoes, so my feet get relief and depending upon the heel height, an outfit can look dressier or more casual.

I really love spending time walking, sightseeing, being comfortable, not looking like a tourist and never wasting precious time at the luggage carousel praying my suitcase didn’t get lost. I have no problem washing my clothes in a the bathroom sink, so I can pack less and not come home with a load of laundry to do.

Tip: I use a smaller bag for dressier nights as holder for jewelry or cosmetics when packing. The more you can use something for more than one way, the less you have to pack.

NOTE: There was only one top that I ended up never wearing, as the heat wave was intense and the evenings never got cool.

Now it’s your turn to challenge yourself by packing less and having more to wear.

Only Travel With A Carry-On Bag

Written by Scarlett De Bease on June 21, 2017. Posted in Travel Tips, What To Wear. 1 Comment on Only Travel With A Carry-On Bag

When you see this post, I will have already been in London and on my way to Lisbon, and when I travel I only use a carry-on bag, so I’m outta here.

Two Countries, One Week In A Carry-On Bag.

WHAT??? Only a carry-on, you ask?

Yes, ONLY a carry-on. No suitcases to check in, and nervously wait for at the carousel. I want every minute to be used for touring, eating, and shopping.

I’ll be posting on my Scarlett Image FaceBook page, the different outfits I created using what I packed, including my comfy travel outfit.

Hey, I plan on sleeping while I fly, or at least try to, so comfort without wearing pj’s is important to me.

Plus, I like to arrive NOT looking, like I stumbled out of bed.

Here is what I packed, and see the bundle after I folded all the clothes I’m taking.

Go ahead and take a Like and a Look at my FaceBook Scarlett Image page, to see more styling and shopping tips.

Here is what I packed:

1 dress
1 lightweight black loose topper
1 pair jean leggings
1 pair black leggings
1 pair harem style pants
1 black tank top
1 black 3/4 sleeve top
1 tunic
1 white shirt tunic (my husband LOVES when I wear this top).
1 sleeveless printed top
1 large lightweight black & cream scarf that can double as a wrap.
2 pairs earrings
1 silver necklace
2 lightweight fabric necklaces
1 watch
3 pairs sandals
1 pair sneakers (not the going-to the-gym kind)

Note: I bring more pairs of shoes than some may need, as we do lots and lots of walking when in Europe and I need to wear a different pair each day to avoid discomfort. I get cranky when my feet hurt.

To answer your question, yes I bring pj’s, underwear, and toiletries.
I wash underwear and, if needed, my clothes in the bathroom sink. I only take fabrics that dry very quickly, so that by morning all is dry.

If you are not already a member of my private Stop Stressing About Dressing Group, please request to join for even more tips.

How To Make Your Wardrobe & Personal Brand A Perfect Match

Written by Scarlett De Bease on June 14, 2017. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, Shopping Tips.

When it comes to your business, you need to stand out and not disappear into the crowd.

To succeed in both business and your personal life, you need to feel and look confident so you can stand out, be seen, and succeed.

Below is the Free Webinar I made as a guest of Holly Chantal’s Land Of Brand, so grab a pen and paper and get the styling and shopping tips that YOU can use right away so you learn how to make your wardrobe & personal brand a perfect match.

P.S. Sorry about my sneeze attack in the middle of the video.

“When it comes to your visual brand everyone knows about your logo, colors, and website – but what about your style? Today I have my personal stylist Scarlett DeBease coming to share how to dress like your brand in a way that flatters you both physically and personality-wise.” Holly Chantal – Land Of Brand

Are YOU looking to finally know what clothes to wear and buy?
Apply here for a Know What To Wear call with me, and I’ll help you identify what is keeping you from having a wardrobe you love and how to fix it.

Tips for Finding The Right Bathing Suit For Your Body

Written by Scarlett De Bease on May 24, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, Travel Tips, What To Wear.

It’s that time again, but have no fear.

https://2ndact.tv/get-ready-swimsuit-season-tips-feeling-good-bathing-suit-body/

Here I am again with Silke Jones of 2nd Act TV, sharing my tips for finding the right bathing suit for your body.

You’ll see and hear lots of great examples of what style bathing suits and cover-ups to look for.

No more hiding in a t-shirt and shorts at the pool or beach, while being miserably self-conscious.

Instead use my Tips for Finding The Right Bathing Suit For Your Body, and you’ll have fun in the sun, but don’t forget the sunblock.

Read below what Andrea sent me in an email, and you’ll know why my job is done.

“At the NAPO conference this week and I did a power shopping spree the day before I left on the trip at macy’s in town. .. thanks for teaching me to shop by color. It allowed me to quickly pick out clothes to try on and to not waste my time on stuff that would just not work. I picked out all the outfits I needed for a 4 day conference in about 2 hours.” Andrea Bowser Professional Organizer

Tips For Choosing Which Colors To Wear

Written by Scarlett De Bease on May 10, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, News and Events, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

I’ve been doing a series of videos on the wonderful 2nd Act TV, and the latest is on tips to choose the colors that are the most flattering to wear.

So take a look here and get Tips For Choosing Which Colors To Wear, and be sure to take some notes.

ATTENTION: If you are in the New York State, New Jersey or Connecticut area, grab one of the last two spots for my personal Styling Event on June 15, 2017 where you will find out what you should and can wear in person. Details here.

Only 2 spots left.
Look here on how to join me in an exclusive & intimate 1/2 day personal Styling Event in Westchester NY on June 15, 9:00am to 1:00pm.

*You’ll discover why certain clothes do or don’t look good on you.
*You’ll find out what you can do to highlight your best features and hide those that you are less fond of.
*You’ll realize it is not about what size you wear, but what you wear.
*You’ll walk out knowing how to dress to look and feel confident.
*You’ll know how to choose the right clothes and accessories perfect for YOU.
*You’ll learn what styles and labels you should look for when shopping.
*You’ll get the answers to your “what should I wear” questions.

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You Decide

Written by Scarlett De Bease on April 26, 2017. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, What To Wear.

Scarlett is a brilliant Image Stylist. She understands not only what looks good on her clients but how those clothes interact with daily life and can be an extension of brand. It was so incredible to arrive at my dressing room and find it fully loaded. I will never EVER look through racks of clothes again. What she saved me in knowing where to find the great sales (and when to pay full price) covered her fee alone. Even if that wasn’t the case she would be worth every penny. I highly recommend Scarlett!

Patty Lennon – PattyLennon.com

Tips To Make Your Butt Look Thinner

Written by Scarlett De Bease on April 19, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Come on now, you know you would like Tips To Make Your Butt Look Thinner, don’t you?When I was asked by 2nd Act.TV to share my “what the heck should I wear” tips for women over 50…..

I really had to think about it….for like a second!! OF COURSE I will share, a few of my MANY tips on how to look and feel confident, comfortable & captivating.

So, here I am giving you a few Tips To Make Your Butt Look Thinner and then you won’t ever ask again, “does this make my butt look fat?”

2nd Act.TV is all about sharing tips and supporting women on Recreating Life after 50!

BRAVO to 2nd Act.TV

Thank you Scarlett for helping me let go of the stress of dressing. It was very interesting learning that I am a summer palette of muted colors as well as the best neckline for the shape of my face. Who knew that gold jewelry is the preferred metal for my skin, hair and eyes? It was fun trying various outfits as we went through the closet of clothes, shoes, scarves and jewelry! Thanks for taking pictures cause I would NEVER remember.
Wow, by the end of our time together I knew what would work or not work and I love that you recommended some missing items in my closet You really helped me gain control. Felt GREAT getting rid of the things I had no idea what to do with or wear with.
Most of all, thank you for the CONFIDENCE that you instilled. Dressing will be much more fun! Cindi Melkerson Arbonne

Oh No It’s Back and Don’t Be Green With Envy

Written by Scarlett De Bease on April 5, 2017. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Color Trend Warning: Oh, No It’s Back and please don’t be green with envy.

I won’t even bother giving my opinion on the style of this jacket…you should know me well enough by now to know that I prefer creative, not crazy, for my clients.

About five years ago, bright and lime green were a trend color, and like black, it was all over the stores and hard to miss.

Be sure to scroll to the bottom to see my style tip for wearing lime or bright greens.

Unfortunately, I see this shade of green in almost every client’s closet, and it is typically a garment she rarely wears.

The reason she rarely wears it, is because she feels wrong in it but doesn’t know why.

I created a do it yourself program, for $297, that includes helping you figure out which colors you should and shouldn’t wear, and why.

If you know why something is right for you, you’ll wear it, and if you learn why it is wrong , you won’t wear it. It’s really that simple to stop making shopping mistakes, and feeling so discouraged when you stare into your clothes closet.

I don’t mess around, so take a look and listen to what I created to help you and your friends stop saying you wish you liked how you look and feel in clothes, to actually feeling confident and attractive.

See how you can go from being interested to committed towards making yourself happier about choosing what you wear for work or play.

“Oh my goodness. That was fun. I feel like I just lost 20 pounds. It’s like I was given permission to let go of past things that just didn’t work. Past ideas and even goals that literally just don’t fit me anymore. Thank you so much for your help. So much I never knew or even thought about!!!”- Lisa Tancredi

STYLE TIP: If you do have that lime green color in your closet, try combining it with navy instead of black. It will be a more flattering and softer combination.