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Small Is Not Always Better – Trend Alert

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 14, 2015. Posted in Image and Style, What To Wear.

TREND ALERT!!

Or in my book, watch out alert!

The latest must have, is a small handbag.

Really, must have?

A small handbag is perfect for a small woman.

If a larger woman wears a small bag, it will make her look larger and out of proportion. Who wants that?

Here are a few tips for what handbag you should wear:

Small bag for a small woman.
Medium bag for a medium sized woman.
Yes, a larger woman should wear a larger sized bag.
Do not let your bag fall alongside your hips, or they will look wider. Shorten the straps so your bag lays just above or below your hips or wherever be your widest body spot.

PS. Use the above tips in reverse for large bags, which can dwarf smaller women.

“Thank you Scarlett for all your time and effort in helping me organize my ‘cough’ overflowing closet! I always look forward to and enjoy working with you. With the clothes that I had you made some beautiful ensembles for me to wear. Whether it be to dinner, special occasion, or work. I am ready! Anxiety and stress be gone!”

The best compliment I get, is when YOU refer a friend or relative who may be in need of ways to Stop Stressing About Dressing.

Coffee or Tea?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on September 30, 2015. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style.

Women are great connectors. We develop long friendships and business partnerships from attending networking events, parties, FaceBook, LinkedIn, and even Twitter. No kidding.

Many of these great collaborations have begun at a Starbucks over a cup of coffee or tea.

How you choose to dress to meet a stranger or new acquaintance, can make all the difference in making a great first impression.

Don’t show up wearing activewear, no matter how nice they may be or how good you look in them.

Always dress to impress. This doesn’t mean showing up in a cocktail dress, it just means look like you made an effort. Sure, you can wear jeans, but not the pair you wear for when you walk the dog or clean the house in.

So next time you are going to meet a potential client, business partner, or someone you recently connected with and want to get to know better, make an effort.

Your income, business and self esteem always improve when you like what you wear, how you look and get well earned compliments.

However, if you are meeting a friend or two after a workout, then go ahead and sip your latte while in your spandex and sneakers.

Pretty please, do not dine out in your activewear.

This is where ‘they’ were before they sat in the restaurant seat.

I shower and change to dine in a restaurant, and so should my fellow diners. It is, hmm how shall I say this, yucky and/or tacky when women show up in their sweaty activewear.

The very funny video, below, by the Van Vuuren Bros, points out how far women have gone with where they wear their active wear.

The best compliment I get, is when YOU refer a friend or relative who may be in need of ways to Stop Stressing About Dressing.

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Bra Straps No More – Use A Bra Strap Convertor

Written by Scarlett De Bease on September 23, 2015. Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Style, Shopping Tips, Travel Tips, What To Wear. 4 Comments on Bra Straps No More – Use A Bra Strap Convertor

I have a pet peeve and I need to just put it out there: Visible bra straps.

NO, bra straps should not be showing or peeking out of your tops and dresses.

Bra straps are not an accessory to an outfit.

Now that I got that out of the way, I have a solution for when you want to wear or buy a racer-back style top or dress.

This is a major offense.

Instead of avoiding racer-back styles or buying a special bra, just pick up this gadget created by Hollywood Fashion Secrets, at your local CVS. Only $8.99 for 2 clear convertors. $7.99 for 3 in color and print, on Hollywood Fashion Secrets website.

Using a bra strap converter is much less expensive than a new bra.

Travel Tip: Pack a bra strap convertor and you’ll be able to wear and buy all style tops while away.

Style Tip: If you are broad shouldered, do not wear a racer-back style top as it will exaggerate your broadness. However, if you are small shouldered, then race away.

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Pointy, Round, or Square?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on September 16, 2015. Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

So what style of shoes should a woman wear these days?

Occasionally a client will ask me if a particular toe style of a shoe is outdated, and not too long ago the answer was often yes. However lately you can find pointy, round or square, open, and whatever other style I couldn’t think of as I wrote this post, are all okay these days.

It is no longer just about the toe shape that makes what you wear on your feet look outdated. You may have a pair that you stopped wearing because the toe was pointy, so blow the dust off and see if they work with the clothes you now wear.

What does make a shoe totally wrong is when it is worn out, uncomfortable, and risky to wear as you may twist your ankle while walking.

Note: All of the above shoes are being sold at the same time in Nordstroms, which proves that these days, everything goes for your toes.

“As a client of Scarlett’s, I’ve been lucky enough to take advantage of her online shopping service. Once I let her know what I was looking for, she took off, quickly sending me a long list of links to specific clothing that she knew I’d like, along with comments on sizing and her opinion. I wound up with all the pieces I needed, plus a few I didn’t even think about, but loved when I got them. Scarlett makes it easy, stress-free and super-convenient. I’m a life-long client.” Lisa Corrado Nutrition

Are You Mustard Or Ketchup?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on September 2, 2015. Posted in Image and Style, Seasonal Tips, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

There they go again, telling us what colors we must wear to look ‘in style’ for the next season.

The color Guru Pantone has named Oak Bluff as one of the must wear colors for fall.

Looks like mustard to me, and I must add that it is an extremely difficult color to wear near the face for most women, especially brunettes.

So if you must add mustard, oh I mean Oak Bluff to your wardrobe, please do so from the waist down. I just can’t give what to wear advice for women, without also giving what not to wear suggestions.

Me, and I’m not bluffing, will be sticking with ketchup…oops, I mean red. Why? Well, red is a color that works for me, and won’t make me look like a condiment.

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“For eight years, I worked as a freelancer, and dressed either for at-home comfort or for events. Now I was embarking on a corporate job that required a new wardrobe. Or so I thought. Scarlett put together my existing separates into creative, stylish looks; she helped me donate the pieces and suits that were a là mode when I last worked in an office, and identified colors, looks and pieces to fit my figure and fill in the gaps.” Jennifer M. Brown, V-P and Publisher, Knopf Books for Young Readers

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It’s In The Bag – Style + Security

Written by Scarlett De Bease on August 26, 2015. Posted in Travel Tips, Uncategorized.

Travelon Anti-Theft Cross-Body Bucket Bag

Trying to decide what bag to travel with, can be daunting. You want it to look good, yet be difficult to pick pocket, plus hold ALL of your must-haves as well as what you buy.

Sometimes one has to be PRACTICAL.

A friend of mine found this bag, and I think she chose wisely, so here are the details.

Personally, I think this bag is great for traveling to other countries and for out of towners, touring New York City.

It is available in a variety of colors and styles, all at a very reasonable price. Only $39.46 for the black style as in this photo.

100% Polyester
13″ shoulder drop
10″ high
14″ wide
Slash-proof locking main and front compartments
Cut-proof shoulder strap attaches to chair or post
RFID blocking card slots
Front slash pocket and zip rear pocket
2 mesh expansion pockets hold water bottle & umbrella; Removable LED light

“I was somewhat nervous about inviting Scarlett into my closet but quickly realized she would be a most welcome guest. She spent four solid hours working incredibly hard sorting things, making helpful comments and suggestions, and helping to organize as she rehung the items that survived the cut. She helped me make new outfits without me having to buy a thing, but even more helpful was the feeling that she was sitting on my shoulder when I shopped after her visit. I could hear her saying things like “Stay in the Petite Department,” “Don’t worry about the size, but rather the fit,” and “Push up those sleeves!” She is very generous with her time in even offering follow-up comments. I consider her visit a great investment in my wardrobe!” – S.P. Westchester NY.

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Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me!

Written by Scarlett De Bease on August 19, 2015. Posted in News and Events, What To Wear.

Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me!

I had a blast being a call-in guest on my favorite radio show, the very funny NPR’s: Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me!

The spot I was asked to participate in was Bluff The Listener, and below you can hear how I did and what my answer was when asked what I do.

Listen to my segment on Wait Wait…Don’t Tell Me!

“I’m still running like a nut but it’s thanks to your advice that I’m packing light and taking a carry-on these days to travel. I never thought I’d see the day!” Holly Cohen New York, NY.

Shopping Sales For Bathing Suits

Written by Scarlett De Bease on August 12, 2015. Posted in Seasonal Tips, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Oh how I love this time of year. The stores are slashing prices to move out summer inventory to make room for fall shipments and shoppers.

This is the perfect time to buy a bathing suit so that when a trip or the next summer rolls around, you will not have to frantically look for a new suit and pay top dollar as well.

Keep in mind that bathing suits do not keep their shape after a few years of wear. The sun, salt water and chlorine break down the fabric and elastic, leaving behind a droopy and pilled looking suit. Not a pretty sight.

These are some of the tips I posted back in the early spring, so use them now to save yourself money, time and dignity.

Six Tips on How To Pick The Best Bathing Suit:

Do not try on suits that are the same size as your clothes. Don’t ask me why, but swimwear sizes do not correspond with clothing sizes. Women need to try one to two sizes up for a flattering and comfortable fit.

Choose a suit in a color that compliments you. And FYI: Avoid white, especially if you plan on getting wet. White suits will always become see-through.

Highlight your smaller parts with lighter colors and camouflage your somewhat larger parts with darker colors. I use this trick to minimize what I consume at the all you can eat at buffet tables and the few too many Pina Coladas.

Watch your back. No, really take a look and see if the shape of your back is pushing over the edge of your bathing suit. If it is, then go for a style that has a higher back so more of you is held in.

Of course you wish you had a smaller waistline, so look for suits that have shirring at the middle. The fabric gathering is a great way to disguise muffin tops and tummy poufs.

Tuck, lift and suck. Tuck, lift and suck. Repeat this mantra each time you put on your suit. Tuck in your breasts, lift up your rear so it is in the bathing suit versus hanging out around the edges, and suck in your stomach when you walk to or get up from your lounge chair.

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What to Wear When Working From Home

Written by Scarlett De Bease on August 7, 2015. Posted in Image and Business, What To Wear.

It’s pretty cool when a client chooses me as her inspiration for an article she wrote for TheWorkAtHomeWoman.com, titled

From PJ’s to Pumps – What to Wear When Working From Home?

If you are a work from home women like me, it is likely you spend a good part of your day in yoga pants, sneakers, and a comfy sweatshirt. In fact, my partner and I work remotely and many days we laugh that it is four o’clock and we are still in our pajamas, working away on our computers. We both dread when clients ask us if we want to Skype because that requires lipstick, makeup, and styled hair.

When I was preparing for our 4th annual conference this spring I found myself facing the same dilemma. Our conference was in Orlando, Florida and I had been living in warm fleece throughout our cold New England winter. I asked Jane Pollak, a business coach I admire who helped her with her outfits and she told me about Scarlett De Bease, a professional Image and Style Coach who specializes in working with women over 40 who are tired of stressing about dressing. I called that day and hired her for a half-day styling session. It was the best investment. She came to my home and helped me create 5 outfits with items I already owned! She also suggested a few additional pieces and sent me the links to shop right online. I followed her advice and I felt great the entire time I was away.

I know I am not alone in these concerns, so I interviewed Scarlett for this article.

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“Need a new wardrobe? “I had an upcoming conference with NO time nor desire to shop for a new wardrobe. I called Scarlett after reading her blog for many months and she saved the day. She came, spent a few hourswith me going through my closet and helped me create a series of perfect outfits. The best part,at the conference a colleague complimented me and told me what I was wearing was a great look.Funny thing was I had everything in my closet all along but had never added the boots, scarf and earrings” Cathi Nelson-President l APPO Association of Personal Photo Organizers