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Disoriented, Bewildered and Unclear

I may never meet you, but…using a computer, phone and my skills, I can and will change your life.

Are you ever CONFUSED about what to wear?

Are you often UNSURE what to buy when shopping for clothes?

Are you feeling PERPLEXED as to how to dress for your body and age?

Finally ready to go from LOST to found?

You can Stop The Madness!!

In less than 1 hour, you will know exactly what to do with your current wardrobe and/or recent purchases so you will no longer waste days to years questioning yourself when you leave your home.

All you have to do is say YES, please tell me what to wear.

You will be amazed at how easy it will be for you to figure out what to wear once you get my tips.

Click on the link below to end your frustration with your wardrobe and image.

YES, please tell me what to wear

What are you waiting for? Why wouldn’t you want to know what to wear?

I have changed the lives of many women without ever having met them in person. You can read in their own words, below, how I transformed their lives and gave them confidence.

Scarlett“I absolutely LOVED my Skype consultation with Scarlett! My previous photoshoot was a disaster and I didn’t like my pictures. This time I was determined to give it my best. I hired Scarlett to help me choose the right clothes and accessories. I was tired of having closet full of stuff that looked great in the store, but not so much on me. Scarlett came to the call prepared. She reviewed the pictures I sent her and had incredibly helpful tips for me on how to dress, what colors and styles suit me well. She even created a WishList on an online store to show me what types of clothing might look good at me. Scarlett transformed my life. She not only helped me feel like a superstar during my photoshoot, but gave me confidence to walk away from clothes that don’t compliment me and focus on styles and colors that will make me look and feel great. Thank you Scarlett for turning my photoshoot into a success and teaching me how to be a confident shopper! I highly recommend Scarlett as a personal stylist for any professional woman who is looking to dress for success and look stunning at all times.”  Silvia Pencak

Scarlett“As someone who spends all of her time at medical meetings focusing on the presentations and not on what the presenters were wearing, I knew that I needed to update but felt at a loss for how to go about it. I want simplicity, sophistication and a style I feel comfortable with. Talking on the phone with Scarlett was wonderful. We “shopped” together virtually and could look at items together while physically across the country from each other. It was a wonderful, non-threatening and efficient way to re-create my style and not get frustrated. Prior to my actual consultation, I really enjoyed dissecting Scarlett’s blog and acting on many of her tips as well. I highly recommend Scarlett and look forward to working with her in the future!”  Dr. Carla S. Smith, MD

Be sure to sign up for your weekly tips HERE, and please tell your friends and family to sign up too. They’ll thank you for being so considerate.

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How Long Should Your Pants Be?

Basic Black Pants
How Low Should You Go with Your Basic Black Pants?


What message does wearing pants that drag on the floor say to you?

This is a photo of a saleswoman in a better department store, and I could not help but notice, that her basic black pants were dragging on the floor.



Do you get the message that she is neat, organized, creative, and pro-active? Would you want her advice on how you look in the clothes you are trying on in the store, or how to decorate your home?

My guess is that you would answer no way!

I am all for wearing comfortable shoes, especially when standing on your feet for hours, but pants need to be tailored to be just above the floor, not touching, or in this case dragging on the ground.

The easy solution is to have just two pairs of basic black pants. One pair tailored for flats and the other for a heel. This way you will look polished and professional and not like you borrowed someone else’s clothes or wearing hand-me-downs.

NOTE: The same guidelines apply to dark denim and/or white jeans.


© Scarlett De Bease & Scarlett Image, All Rights Reserved






I Almost Lost My Client With Nothing To Wear


Today, you are not going to read my words, as this is a story meant to be told by the client I almost lost.

“For the past 13 years, I have been a stay at home mom & personal trainer. My closet was full of workout gear & two-sizes-too-small designer clothes from the ’90s.

A few weeks ago, I accepted a job at a local arts organization.  Realizing how dire my clothing situation was, I immediately called Scarlett whom I had met a few years prior. Scarlett’s sophisticated style and beauty had left an impression on me!

Scarlett explained the two-phase process:  first, she would come to my house and put together outfits from the clothes in my closet; second, we would go shopping to fill in the blanks.

When I told her I had NOTHING to wear, I was not kidding. Phase one resulted in a very large pile of clothes to donate because, well, they were all too small and hadn’t been worn in over a decade! Scarlett did a fabulous job spinning straw into gold, but the reality was that I needed everything: socks, shoes, boots, jeans, dress pants, sweaters & shirts!

I have never been a “shopper”. I have always had body image issues and so the thought of standing in front of a department store mirror with another person in the room picking out my clothes for me was more than I could handle. I emailed Scarlett to say I couldn’t go through with the second phase.

Scarlett understood the depths of my anxiety and her compassion was evident.  I finally agreed to meet her although my anxiety level was at an all-time high. I wanted to flee the dressing room; I tried every excuse to get out of there. Scarlett calmly replied, “You are going to try on everything first.”  And I did!

A few hours later, I left the department store with an entire new wardrobe!  By the time I left, my anxiety was gone; I was happy & relaxed.

The following day, I went shopping on my own to look for a few additional items and the experience was radically different from anything I had ever known. I entered stores with confidence, knowing exactly what I was looking for and able to try on clothing without feeling anxious.

Today was my first day at work; the only sartorial issue I had was deciding which of my many beautiful garments to wear!  My morning was 100% stress-free! I even took a selfie to email Scarlett so that she could see how fabulous I looked and felt!” – Tiffany Barnard Davidson, Weston Ct.

nothing to wear





Pssst…Overheard In The Dressing Room

She really did try every trick to get out of that dressing room, but for her, not myself, I stayed focus on the goal of making it possible for her to see how great she can look and feel about herself.

Truth is that a year before I had another client who had a meltdown due to severe body image issues, and I wasn’t going to let another wonderful woman cheat herself out of looking and feeling fantastic!

I cherish the journey my client took with me, despite almost losing her.


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