Tag: professional image

Let Your Hair Choose What to Wear

Written by Scarlett De Bease on June 28, 2024. Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Style, Makeovers, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Let Your Hair Choose What to Wear

Your head may now be spinning, wondering if you have been wearing the wrong colors and fabrics. In fact, your hair just might be standing up, wondering the same. What can Scarlett possibly say about my hair?

In a previous blog, we dealt with the texture of your skin and how it impacts the choice of fabrics to wear near your face. The texture of your hair also can influence what tops and scarves you can wear.

For example: If you have curly hair, try on a top or scarf that has ruffles. Notice how the curls are being duplicated, and how attractive this looks. Nobody will look at you and figure out what you have done to look so great in what you are wearing, but they will notice that you do look especially good.

If you were to wear a top that did not have the same texture as your hair, there would be nothing wrong, but you would be missing out on creating a subtle, but very flattering look. Straight hair is fine with a ruffled scarf, but even better with a straighter style.

No need to pull your hair out, trying to pick out clothes and accessories to go with your straight or curly hair.
Just by becoming more aware of which way your locks look, you will find yourself becoming more aware and creative with your wardrobe.

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This short email from a new client melted my heart.

“Scarlett, I’ve taken so much joy in all my new clothes. I’m happier.”❤️

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Strangers Could Compliment You Too

Written by Scarlett De Bease on July 13, 2023. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style.

Strangers Could Compliment You Too

You know what’s awesome? When you wear an outfit that gets compliments.

Or when you contribute to a conversation, and people thank you for your two cents.

It always makes you smile – inside and out.

Compliments come in many forms, but when someone says, “Hey, you look great!”, it’s like a round of applause for your day!

Let’s be real, those compliments make you feel like you’re on top of the world, kind of like that day you get your hair done feeling.

When we dress in a way that makes us feel confident and gets those compliments rolling in, it’s a transformative experience that impacts you on multiple levels and I might add, is infectious.

You deserve to feel confident, appreciated, and downright fabulous! So please put on an outfit that gives you those feelings, even if your only place to go today is the supermarket.

And then she said…

Much to her delight, and mine, one of my wonderful clients is getting complimented about her outfits so often, she asked me to mail her my business cards for her to pass out.

Another cherished long-time client simply responds with “Thank you, it’s Scarlett” when people compliment her outfits.

Considering how much I strive to assure my clients get compliments not only from themselves but others as well, these experiences are one of my favorite compliments to receive. ❤️🤗❤️🤗

What’s your favorite compliment to get or give?

These are the business cards I mailed to my client, in a note card titled Applause. 🙂

Time for you to be noticed and receive the compliments you deserve, Book a Zoom call to find out how to work with me in-person or virtually and finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.

How To Dress To Look Like The Expert You Are

Written by Scarlett De Bease on June 30, 2023. Posted in Image and Business, News and Events, What To Wear.

How To Dress To Look Like The Expert You Are

Shhhhhh!🤫

I’m in the library giving a presentation, so we need to keep our voices low.

Okay, I’m not exactly in the library, but I was when I gave a virtual presentation on the importance of wearing clothes that send the right message, to the New York Public Library last week.

You can watch my How To Dress To Look Like The Expert You Are talk here.

I’ll warn you that this is a longer talk than usual as I shared many tips, and a lot of attendees asked great questions.

Note: I offered a 30-minute complimentary session to 10 people who attended, but that is no longer available.

If you are looking for style transformation not just information, Book a Zoom call to find out how to work with me in-person or virtually, and finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.

Why Your Clothes Don’t Fit.

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 2, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

This tiny detail is one of the many reasons why your clothes don’t fit and why you might not have any idea why something is wrong with your outfit, but you can’t quite put your finger on it.

Take a look at my video on YouTube and see what’s in your closet that fits this common fit problem.

Until you can identify all the different styling details, and there are a lot, you will always wonder why your clothes don’t fit the way you think they should.

Pay attention to details in the clothes you wear and buy, and you’ll end up saving money and walking into a room looking and feeling confident, instead of feeling like you can’t quite get it right.

Here’s how I can show you how to be the best-dressed woman in any room, because YOU deserve to love how you look!

Dopamine Dressing Is The Trend You Should Follow

Written by Scarlett De Bease on April 15, 2022. Posted in Image and Style, News and Events, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Here’s a fashion trend I like, even though I hate trends…Dopamine Dressing!

Huh?

Trends are designed to make you buy new clothes.

New clothes are wonderful as long as they look good on you, and when a trend doesn’t look good on you, neither will your new clothes.

There are many clothing style choices these days that don’t look ridiculously trendy but slim us down and elevate our style.

But, I do have one exception.

The best trend for you is…Dopamine Dressing!!

Dopamine Dressing involves dressing to boost your mood, and when you wear clothes that make you look and feel slimmer, confident, approachable, and put-together, you’ll be boosted every single day of the year!

Here’s a bit more of my thoughts on fashion trends and dressing to look and feel happy:

I hope you’ve enjoyed this video. I’d love to know your thoughts on this trend- click reply to let me know!

Until next time!

P.S. When you’re ready, here are 3 ways I can help you:

If you’re ready to dress to make your stomach look flatter, your butt look smaller, and your style less frumpy; if you’re ready to feel confident in your clothes…sign up for my video course today.
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Are you often frustrated when trying to figure out what to wear? Virtual wardrobe styling is the answer! You’ll learn which style of clothes and accessories you should wear and avoid without leaving the comfort of your home or office. Click here to learn more.

Starting Over In Life & Business

Written by Scarlett De Bease on October 3, 2021. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, News and Events, What To Wear.

Helping women walk out their door, or turn the camera on, with a renewed sense of confidence and style is why I love showing women which clothes to wear and buy.

Lately, I’ve been doing lots of presentations and I’m sharing below one of them on how to dress to look and feel like a trailblazer,

Catch the entire Dress Like A Trailblazer here.

Why You Have Nothing To Wear

Written by Scarlett De Bease on August 31, 2020. Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Recently a new client asked to work with me because she was fed up with having lots of clothes, yet nothing she loved to wear.

Every time she was getting dressed for either an in-person or remote meeting she would wear the same one or two outfits that she had in a few different colors, but always felt frumpy.

And she couldn’t understand why the clothes she had bought seemed great when she bought them, and not so great when she tried to make an outfit with them.

She hysterically shared that her recent way of accessorizing an outfit was to put a bra on. LOL

Then she confessed that things got worse when she let her 18-year-old daughter give her styling advice. 😳

Hence, her “I can’t take it anymore” ringy -dingy to my cell.

I virtually took a look at her clothes and a few selfies so I could see what was going wrong and how to make it right. And it worked.

I told her, here’s why you have nothing to wear…

Turns out she was buying clothes just because they fit, instead of loving how she looked in them and following the advice of a teenager might have worked if she was 18, but not at over 45.

She had lots of pieces, but very few that could be mix and matched to create lots of new outfits.

During her Zoom with me, I was able to show her which of her clothes were perfect for her and which to get out of her closet. And because she chose my Premium Virtual Styling service, I showed her the clothes and accessories to try and buy because I knew she’d look amazing wearing them.

Yesterday she emailed me a big thank you. She loves all the compliments she’s now getting when on camera, and finally her insecurities are gone. She also stopped buying clothes she didn’t even like to wear.

PS Now she’s giving her daughter styling advice and she’s listening!! Respect!

ANNOUNCEMENT – My Virtual Personal Styling fees are increasing on September 14, 2020. When you purchase a virtual styling service prior to 9/14/20, we’ll work together when you’re ready and you get to save money that you can use towards some new clothes.

Basic Virtual Styling service will go from $250 to $325
Premium Virtual Styling service will go from $400 to $475

What Are You Saying With Your Clothes?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on July 17, 2016. Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, Uncategorized. 1 Comment on What Are You Saying With Your Clothes?

When Seth Godin speaks, people listen. Especially those in business, as his words are so darn wise and thought provoking.

In one of his recent posts,titled The Signals We Send, he spoke about the signals we send, by what we do, say and in my area of expertise, wear.

He mentions that many people have trouble sending the signal that they would like to send.

Which makes me ask; what message does what you wear and how you wear it, send to your current and/or prospective clients, management and yes even on first dates?

If you are looking to work with high end clients, but your outfits and coordinating lack of confidence are sending the signal of just getting by, you won’t be gaining the attention of those with money to spend and invest.

If you are a nutritionist, but your clothes hug you in the wrong places because they are simply the wrong size and style for you, then prospective clients won’t trust that you can help them look and feel healthy.

If you specialize in coaching others to grow their businesses, but look exhausted and over-worked simply because you are wearing the wrong colors and clothes, then potential clients won’t believe that you can help them improve their lives and careers.

If you are sending the wrong or perhaps even no signal, then please ask yourself why, and then do something about it. Please don’t keep putting off sending the right signals to yourself and others.

So, What Are You Saying With Your Clothes?

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A simple way to start choosing the right clothes, is by following the incredibly easy but transformative tips in my new book, Stop Stressing About Dressing.

Warning: Be prepared to laugh while you learn, and then know how to easily and stylishly, send the right signals with your clothes.

Take a look at the reviews of my book on Amazon. All 5 Stars, so If I were a restaurant, people would be standing in line to get in! Just saying.

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Sorry For The Late Notice

Written by Scarlett De Bease on July 2, 2014. Posted in News and Events, Uncategorized.

Rather than write a styling tip for you this week, you can actually listen live and even call in with your questions or comments, to hear me share my wardrobe styling tips with Nancy Michaels on tuesday at 12pm Eastern Standard time.

Call in Details:
Dial (425) 440-5100
Participant’s PIN: 305751#
It’s all happening on Tuesday, March 11th 12 pm Eastern Time

We have a big call planned for Tuesday, March 11 on our next Bust Through Breakthrough series at 12pm eastern. I think you’re going to want to be there.

* Do you hate how you dress and often dread shopping for new clothes?

• Are you feeling out of style or stuck in a fashion rut?

• Do you want your professional and casual wardrobe to reflect confidence and success?

Join Nancy Michaels on her next Bust Through Breakthrough series when she interviews fashion expert extraordinaire Scarlett De Bease. Don’t go another day without knowing what to put on for your next meeting, date, presentation or networking event.

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Scarlett De Bease

Scarlett De Bease, named Red Hot Image Maker by Westchester magazine, is the founder of the Always Know What To Wear (TM) Program. She is a professional image consultant, wardrobe stylist and personal shopper. Scarlett does not give up until she finds what will make her clients feel great about their appearance with kindness, compassion and genuine respect for their needs and feelings.

If you keep buying clothes and still have nothing to wear, you’ll love Scarlett’s fun and informative presentations so you can…

Stop Stressing About Dressing!

It’s all happening on Tuesday, March 11th

12 pm Eastern Time

Call in Details:

Dial (425) 440-5100

Participant’s PIN: 305751#

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