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Dopamine Dressing Is The Trend You Should Follow

Here’s a fashion trend I like, even though I hate trends…Dopamine Dressing!


Trends are designed to make you buy new clothes.

New clothes are wonderful as long as they look good on you, and when a trend doesn’t look good on you, neither will your new clothes.

There are many clothing style choices these days that don’t look ridiculously trendy but slim us down and elevate our style.

But, I do have one exception.

The best trend for you is…Dopamine Dressing!!

Dopamine Dressing involves dressing to boost your mood, and when you wear clothes that make you look and feel slimmer, confident, approachable, and put-together, you’ll be boosted every single day of the year!

Here’s a bit more of my thoughts on fashion trends and dressing to look and feel happy:

I hope you’ve enjoyed this video. I’d love to know your thoughts on this trend- click reply to let me know!

Until next time!

P.S. When you’re ready, here are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. If you’re ready to dress to make your stomach look flatter, your butt look smaller, and your style less frumpy; if you’re ready to feel confident in your clothes…sign up for my video course today.
  2. Tired of spending hours (or years?!) looking for the perfect jeans? We solve finding the perfect jeans for your body – and other similar topics – on my YouTube channel.
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  3. Are you often frustrated when trying to figure out what to wear? Virtual wardrobe styling is the answer! You’ll learn which style of clothes and accessories you should wear and avoid without leaving the comfort of your home or office. Click here to learn more.

How To Stop Losing Money In Your Closet

Here’s how to stop losing money in your closet…and it’s so easy.

Stop taking your price tags off!!

Stop it!!

When you hastily cut the price tags off, you lose your chance to get your money back.

I’ve seen way too many clothes hanging in my client’s closets that were never worn or returned.

No more wasting money on clothes you shouldn’t or won’t wear.

And, that’s why you should…

Try them on in the dressing room.

Try them on again at home.

Try them on with the right shoes…not your bare feet. This makes a big difference…trust me.

And try them on again, with the rest of your outfit before you snip that price tag off.

Maybe you got a great deal on it, but until you know for sure it’s keeper, don’t take the price tags off.

And, if it isn’t right for you, return it. That’s how to stop losing money in your closet.

Keep your money to use for clothes that you should, and will love to wear.

Scary question: How much money do you think you’ve spent on clothes you don’t wear?

Send an email to, if you want me to show you the clothes that are taking the price tag off worthy for you.



Will Jewelry Make Your Outfit Look Better?

Will Jewelry Make Your Outfit Look Better?


Will Jewelry Make Your Outfit Look Better?

There must be something in my client’s water, as lately so many of them are sharing jewelry designers they’ve met and want me to meet as well.

It’s likely not the water but more that they know how much I love using jewelry often and creatively to make some killer outfits for them.

Today I’ll share the beautiful and affordable designs by Amy Kanarek.

Amy has allowed me to customize her designs for my clients, so I can pick out the perfect metal and stone colors for their features and clothes.

Details matter, and when you wear the right ones you’ve hit the Jackpot. Even a simple all-black outfit or t-shirt and jeans become a watch-out world one with a necklace and earrings that bring out your features that adds personality to your wardrobe.

NOTE: If you make a purchase on Amy Kanarek, tell her Scarlett sent you.
If you are a client of mine I’ll make customized suggestions for you because YOU know why the details matter. 






Move Over Richard Gere: How You Could Have Your Own Pretty Woman Experience.

Personal Shopping

Didn’t you love the scene in Pretty Woman, when the character played by Julia Roberts was surrounded by personal shopping saleswomen happily finding her the perfect clothes & accessories? Thank you to Richard Gere, for making so many women want you in their lives, and wish that you………sorry, I’m digressing.

Oh, the magic of movies….wait a minute.

Personal shopping is not a fantasy or solely for the wealthy. It’s for women who hate the clothes they own, how they look in them, and despise shopping!

Many department stores offer you their personal shopping services at no cost but keep in mind their goal is to sell and not to find you the clothes that will allow you to open your closet and easily find what to wear.

As a matter of fact, a new client of mine spent $$$ at a store with their personal shopper, and was so upset when she realized she still had nothing to wear!! That’s when she called me.

I offer personal shopping to my clients, and my goal was to find the pieces that will allow her to easily and quickly pick out what to wear. First I went to her home, reviewed her clothes, created new outfits, explained why some clothes were not working on her, and created a list of what she needs for when I shop for her, to complete the blanks she needs in her existing wardrobe.

Take a look at this short video I took of what your Pretty Woman personal shopping dressing room can look like for you.


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When Do You Feel Best About Your Body?

The result of a poll of 4,000 Oprah magazine readers is very telling and quite relatable.


When Do You Feel Best About Your Body?


The numbers that stuck out the most to me, after all, I am a wardrobe stylist and personal shopper, were the answers to the following poll question:

When do you feel best about your body?

10%  When I catch someone checking me out

14%  When someone compliments me

14%  When I’m killing it at the gym

30%  Other

32%  When I’m wearing a fabulous new outfit

What a woman wears wins!!

Yet why then do so many women put off discovering the clothes that will allow them to love choosing what to wear?

STOP the madness!!

Don’t let weight struggles or guilt, keep you from looking and feeling good about yourself now.
Size, age, stress, budget or time should never keep a woman from taking care of and feeling good about herself.

Please tell me in the comment box below, When Do You Feel Best About Your Body? If anyone chooses Other, could you let me know what other is?

Pssst…Overheard In The Dressing Room

Take a look and listen to one of my clients in the video below talk about her first shopping experience with me.
P.S. YEARS went by till she finally made a personal shopping appointment with me and it looks like she won’t wait that long again.

About Scarlett

When do you feel best about your body

Scarlett De Bease, a professionally trained Image Consultant and Wardrobe Stylist, is the founder of “The Always Know What To Wear Program™“. As an Image Consultant, Entertaining Speaker & Savvy Personal Shopper, she shows women how to project confidence & success by always knowing what to wear.
As a bonus, Scarlett’s tips will help you Look Younger, Thinner and Taller while projecting Confidence & Success as you now will be wearing the clothes that fit and flatter you the most.
Since 2006, she has successfully changed the lives of many women, by showing them the correct clothes, colors, styles and accessories that will flatter them the most. If you keep buying clothes and still have nothing to wear, Scarlett will make it possible for you to always know what to wear.
Scarlett specializes in make-overs, that are fun and informative. She brings The What Not To Wear experience directly to your home or office, but without the tears, fears and trash can. Scarlett shows women how to Stop Stressing About Dressing.
Scarlett’s tips have nothing to do with size, age, income level, career, etc – It’s not about where you shop, it’s about what you buy.

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Want To Eavesdrop On A Dressing Room Conversation?

Pssst…Overheard In The Dressing Room

This really was exactly what I hear in my client’s dressing room and it takes place with every woman I take shopping. No exaggeration, no kidding!
Dressing Room


As she entered the dressing room and saw it filled with clothes and accessories, my client’s eyes and mouth opened wide. After a few seconds of rapid eye blinking, she asked, “all this for me?”

“Of course,” I replied, and here are the pants you need, tops in your colors and those comfortable shoes I told you about.”

Looking slightly overwhelmed, she asks “What should I try on first?”

“Start with these pants and this top”, I said as I handed them to her, and began to step outside the room to give her privacy.

Right before I went thru the dressing room door, she looked at the top I handed her and proclaimed, “There is no way this is going to look good on me.”

“Try it on anyway”, I said. “You need to try on what I have brought in here, and although not everything will look great on you until you try it, you can’t really know what will flatter you once it is on your body”.

As I closed the door, she shrugged her shoulders and looked at me like I was crazy, and was quite confident she would HATE the top.

Thru the closed door I heard a gasp, and after asking “May I come in?”, she opened the door. She stood there smiling from ear to ear in awe, and exclaimed, “I love it”. “I just can’t believe it”. “I would NEVER have picked this out by myself”.

I smile proudly and thought to myself, “I love how this happens EVERY time I take a client shopping”.
Let me know in your comments below if you recognize the above conversation.

“Before I worked with Scarlett, I bought random pieces of clothing and would go thru my closet everyday, trying hard to figure out what to wear. Now my closet is organized, thanks to Scarlett by color and filled with clothes from our shopping trip, that easily co-ordinate with each other. Picking out what to wear is now a joy. Thank you Scarlett!

personal shopping
She now knows what to wear.


Sandra Sergeant – Caring Solutions

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Did You Know I Do This Too?

Many of you know a little bit of what I do for and with my clients, but I bet you don’t know all of the services I offer.

Sure I can take my clients shopping and show them what to wear, but did you know that I also help them with……Oh, just watch the video and find out. Maybe you’ll even find out you are one of my VIP clients.



Did you read my post in The Huffington Post?
Well, you can you can right here.


What To Wear

Scarlett’s warmth and kindness immediately put me at ease as soon as she stepped in the door. She came to help me put together an outfit for the most important moment of my career, giving my first TEDx talk! I was working through my stage fright, and I knew that if I looked great on stage, I would feel much more confident on the big day. Scarlett helped me choose the right colors for my skin and hair, and ended up not only choosing a fabulous outfit for the TEDx talk, she also put together many more outfits for my professional life. I would never have thought of combining that blouse with that jacket and skirt. It was like getting five new outfits without spending a penny on clothes. I love Scarlett so much, I have hosted her on a webinar and my radio show, so she can reach my clients who are dating again after divorce or loss.
Helping women feel better about the bodies they have and knowing what to wear? Priceless!” 
—Sandy Weiner Last First Date



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