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Change is good

Change Is Good!

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Change Is Good!

This Fortune Cookie Had It Right!

Sometimes a message can come in the most unexpected places.

Here’s an email from one of my wonderful clients that I had to share.

It’s a clothes-shopping tip that will save you money and stress.

“Tonight I got a great Chinese saying from a fortune cookie and thought of you. You tell us that women feel they have ‘nothing to wear’ so they go out to the same stores and buy more of the same thing. So here’s the proverb: ‘If you don’t enjoy what you have, how could you be happier with more?’ I thought it was perfect!” – Chris L.

Remember it isn’t you that has to change.
You need to change the clothes you buy.
Please stop buying more of the same.

Change the way you shop, not yourself.

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Let Your Hair Choose What to Wear

Let Your Hair Choose What to Wear

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Style, Makeovers, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Let Your Hair Choose What to Wear

Your head may now be spinning, wondering if you have been wearing the wrong colors and fabrics. In fact, your hair just might be standing up, wondering the same. What can Scarlett possibly say about my hair?

In a previous blog, we dealt with the texture of your skin and how it impacts the choice of fabrics to wear near your face. The texture of your hair also can influence what tops and scarves you can wear.

For example: If you have curly hair, try on a top or scarf that has ruffles. Notice how the curls are being duplicated, and how attractive this looks. Nobody will look at you and figure out what you have done to look so great in what you are wearing, but they will notice that you do look especially good.

If you were to wear a top that did not have the same texture as your hair, there would be nothing wrong, but you would be missing out on creating a subtle, but very flattering look. Straight hair is fine with a ruffled scarf, but even better with a straighter style.

No need to pull your hair out, trying to pick out clothes and accessories to go with your straight or curly hair.
Just by becoming more aware of which way your locks look, you will find yourself becoming more aware and creative with your wardrobe.

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This short email from a new client melted my heart.
“Scarlett, I’ve taken so much joy in all my new clothes. I’m happier.”❤️
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Clothes Shopping Mistake

Clothes Shopping Mistake

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Don’t make this common clothes shopping mistake!!!

Watch this short video to see how.

And then she said:

“I hired Scarlett, and my initial thought was,“What was I thinking?” It reminded me of the show “What Not to Wear.” But hiring her was the best decision and gift to me. I donated four bags of clothes that weren’t working for me, and Scarlett helped me update my wardrobe and taught me how to dress for my body type.
Ever since the wardrobe change, my social calendar has been busy.” – Ann Chin

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OH NOOOOO – Did you miss the How To Clean Out & Organize Your Closet workshop?

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Tips To Swap Out Seasonal Clothes and Shoes

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in News and Events, Organizing Tips.

Tips To Swap Out Seasonal Clothes and Shoes

Here’s what I told my client when she asked me about switching out her closet for spring & summer.

Tired of having a disorganized closet and dread switching out your clothes when the seasons change?

Wish you had less in it, but more to wear so that you will stop being overwhelmed choosing what to wear or buy?

Join me on May 4, 2024 at noon ET and learn how to get your closet organized quickly and effectively with the system I’ll be sharing, so that you can find what you need and no longer feel overwhelmed and stressed when you look into your closet(s).

Reserve your spot in my upcoming

How To Clean Out & Organize Your Closet

A recording will be sent out, so no worries
if you can’t attend live.
NOTE: Space is limited.

Reserve Your Seat HERE and finally get your closet cleaned up, organized, and off your To-Do List. ✅

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closet makeover

Closet Makeover Part 2

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Organizing Tips.

Closet Makeover Part 2

In my last blog, I gave you a sneak peek into how I re-organized and beautified my client’s closet in California.

Today, you’ll see more and yes, I know that she is very lucky to have a large closet.

Please know that everything I did in terms of organizing will also work in your own closet, no matter how small or big it may be.


I used the floor shoe rack for sneakers and hiking boots, tucked into a corner instead of where it was before under the window.

Tip 1 – Keep all your shoes in one place. In the photo above you can see she had some on the floor, upper shelves, and more in bins. This is very common, but not a good use of space.
Instead, keep them all together on the floor, or if you are lucky enough to have shelves, store them there. See the above-after photo.

Note: Donate or consign the shoes you no longer can, or will wear again.

Tip 2 – Use all the same hangers for your clothes. No plastic or wire ones…please!

Tip 3 – Use see-thru plastic boxes for shoes. It’s ok to use a regular cardboard box now and then too, or use the clear boxes for larger shoes/booties.

Tip 4 – Use a pretty laundry bin. Here’s the one I found for this closet makeover.

Tip 5 – Hang like with like. Sleeveless with sleeveless, short sleeves with shorts, etc.

Tip 6 – If you are fortunate enough to have room for a rug and chair or bench, then use it! I asked my client if she had an extra chair and rug, and much to my delight, she did!

You can transform your closet with tips 1 to 5 in a matter of hours, and find pieces you forgot you had, and recognize those you need to say goodbye to.

P.S. I redid another of her closets which I’ll share one day as well.

Get these FREE tips to clean out your closet. 

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Tips For Stress-Free Shopping

Tips For Stress-Free Shopping

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, Shopping Tips, What To Wear.

Tips For Stress-Free Shopping

The photo below is of an actual warehouse sale I went to. 😳

It also is how most of my clients view shopping for clothes.

Overwhelming, confusing, and impossible. But, if you shop knowing what works best on you, then it’s soooo much easier to go through the racks and zero in on what you should try on, versus leaving empty-handed, depressed, and stressed.

Shopping is only stressful when it’s unsuccessful.

Note: I walked out with a pair of $230 Paige jeans for just $25.
That’s all I bought and no stress was involved.

On a completely other note, I dressed up my website, ScarlettImage.com, and would love for you to take a look and let me know what you think.

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Top 5 Styling Tips

Top 5 Styling Tips – 2023

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Accessorizing, Image and Business, Image and Style, Organizing Tips, What To Wear.

Top 5 Styling Tips – 2023

Top 5 Styling Tips

It’s time to wrap up 2023, but before you do…

Take a look back at my Top 5 styling tips for stylish inspiration and motivation.

Four have helpful styling tips for you, and the other great shopping finds for yourself and the special people in your life.

1. My Favorite Things To Buy 2023
2. How To Make a Good First Impression
3. The Secret to a Flattering Neckline
4. Here Is How To Look Thinner In Photos
5. How You Could Have Your Own Pretty Woman Experience

Wishing you and yours cherished moments to share and love.

You deserve to love seeing your
reflection in the mirror!

I understand that want to finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.
Start your year knowing which style of clothes you should be wearing and buying.
Get transformation inside and out, when you Book a complimentary 30-minute Know What to Wear Zoom call with me. You’ll learn how to feel confident, stylish, and excited to get dressed every day!

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Is This Neckline Wrong For YOU Too?

Is This Neckline Wrong For YOU Too?

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Image and Style, What To Wear.

The Secret to a Flattering Neckline

Sometimes the shape and width of a neckline can ruin your outfit.

And you might not even know it.

I love this top, see the above photo, but the neckline was too wide and showed more than it should.

Is This Neckline Wrong For YOU Too?

To solve this problem, I took a pin and slightly gathered the fabric, see photo below; voila, my neckline is no longer too wide for my features and my bra straps are no longer exposed.

Often it’s the little details that can make your clothes right or wrong for you. So when you put something on be a detective and do a little snooping around and pay attention to the details.

If you are looking for style transformation not just information, Book a Zoom call to find out how to work with me in-person or virtually, and finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.

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Wardrobe Evaluation Quiz 

Wardrobe Evaluation Quiz

Written by Scarlett De Bease on . Posted in Image and Business, Image and Style, Makeovers, What To Wear.

Answer the Wardrobe Evaluation Quiz below to find out if your closet is your BFF or frenemy. 

 

Do you often find yourself with a closet full of clothes but still feeling like you have nothing to wear?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Sometimes: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Do you dread clothes shopping and find it to be a frustrating or overwhelming experience?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Occasionally: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Do you frequently feel frumpy or unfashionable in your clothing choices?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Sometimes: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Have you ever thought that everyone around you is dressed better than you?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Occasionally: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Do you often buy clothes on impulse and later regret the purchase?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Sometimes: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Is your wardrobe overflowing with items that you rarely or never wear?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Occasionally: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Have you kept clothing items that no longer fit you or haven’t been in style for years?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Sometimes: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Do you struggle to put together outfits that make you feel confident and stylish?

A) Yes: 1 point

B) No: 0 points

C) Occasionally: 1 point

D) All of the above: 2 points

 

Scoring: Time to Evaluate & Elevate Your Wardrobe!

 

0-4 points: Keep up the good work and enjoy looking and feeling stylishly confident. 

 

5-8 points: You need to break free from your wardrobe rut! Stop letting those moments of frustration dictate your days and self-esteem. Get your seat and the *recording of my  Know What To Wear Workshop to learn my tips on how to find and wear clothes that give you style and self-confidence.

 

9-16 points: Enough is enough. You’ve felt this frustration for way too many years, and please know you’re not alone. If you’re tired of the same old battles, longing for a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and ready to be seen, there’s no better time than now to stop the pain! 

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Reserve your seat and get the *recording of my Know What To Wear Workshop to get the tips and tricks to say bye-bye to feeling frumpy and embrace a style that gets positive attention, self-confidence, and excited to get dressed for any occasion.

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